Trained By Competitors
Just a note on competition and the skills needed to succeed in sports and life. At age 32, not exactly an expert on anything, in fact I strive to never be called an expert at anything except for being an expert in telling myself the truth and following my purpose in life. The reason for this is that achieving expert status usually means that you are done and cannot progress any further in that area. I cannot work in that static environment, I need change and need room to grow, I need to believe that there is always more. With that being said I do know this, being competitive is extremely important in sports. Competitors are people who know what they want and have a vision of materializing their goals.
In my field athletes are always comparing themselves to each other in terms of their relative strength, flexibility, speed, etc. I get the question, “How many times can he do that or how much can she lift on this exercise?” on a daily basis. Rarely, does anyone ask me about others “competitiveness”. When I take a look at my clients competitive spirit in the gym, I have found a direct correlation to their on course success levels. Competitors in the gym are always more difficult to work with, they ask lots of questions and really try to challenge you daily. They are not afraid of this conflict, they simply use it to shape their opinions and grow stronger. They do this because the truly care about winning and achieving their goals and they know that the answers to their problems are usually found within, they just need some external resources to help bring light to the issues and create solutions. On the other side, there are many athletes that just want to hear your opinion and then they will follow your instructions by doing no more or no less than required. Sometimes they seem disinterested in the workout, maybe they believe this facet of their golf game will not be greatly effected by working out or maybe they just do not really care about improving, so why bother even formulating an opinion. Either way, they probably think that if they fail to ask questions and then never succeed, then at least they can blame others. It is my opinion that those who desire to formulate an opinion are the “competitors” and will always have more control over there destiny in life and sports. The most successful people I know do not allow me to just direct them anyway I desire without some discussion as to the rationale. Although they may not get me to change my course of action, that was never the point, they just desire to understand and that is the essence of having control.
John Wooden, the great basketball coach of the UCLA Bruins and winner of many NCAA championships said, ”At the end of the game only you know who has won or has lost the competition” That statement is all about getting people to be real, and to tell themselves the truth. No matter what the score, you know if you won or lost because you know if you lived up to or fell short of your goals. Winners and competitors are never afraid of losing, only afraid of not being able to learn from the losses and that is why over time they will always rise again to success. They are fearless, not because of any birth right, but because of an overwhelming desire to achieve their purpose. Cultivating an overwhelming desire to achieve my purpose is definitely a daily goal of mine and one worthy of becoming an expert. In Health, Scott
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